Posted by Ir (Helen) on: 05.02.2006 /
I love this quote about relationships in heaven (or, ‘the new creation’):
“There will be no boors or bores in the new creation. Never again will any of us experience the slightest cringing when we see an individual moving toward us. Because we will be healed of all brokenness and distortions, each individual in the new creation will be someone we delight to commune with, much more than we do now with our favorite person on earth.” – Hugh Ross in “Beyond the Cosmos”
I’d love to hear your responses to the following questions.
(Note: As you respond, please feel free to be honest, but also bear in mind that this is a sensitive subject since some people have very personal reasons for hoping heaven is real.)
If you believe in heaven…
What do you imagine it will be like?
Do you think about it much?
What will be the best thing about it?
If you don’t believe in heaven…
Do you ever wish you did?
Does the idea of living forever seem undesirable?
Comment by: john
1I don’t think much about heaven. It’s icing-on-the-cake, so to speak, when I put my relationship with God in perspective. Jesus spoke of ‘preparing a place’ so I think it will/does exist. Furthermore, I think that He was using an analogy of a Jewish wedding preparation. It’s very cool when you see how they conducted weddings back them.
However cool that is, if I sat around and thought about how wonderful it will be when I die, I may not be able to live in Christ now.
It’s Not About Heaven. It’s about a personal, loving relationship with the God of the Universe. It’s about how that relations changes the world you live in and the people you live with.
Comment by: NCxian
2Mr. Smith died and went to heaven. St. Peter met him at the pearly gates and said, “here, let me take you on the tour”. He showed him all kinds of great places that Mr. Smith could enjoy during his stay, and Mr. Smith was very happy. At one point, however, they came upon an area that was enclosed by a high thick fence. Mr. Smith was dismayed and asked, “why the fence”? St. Peter said, “oh, we put the *Southern Baptists* in there. They’re not happy with heaven unless they think they are the only ones here”.
(At the asterisk, name your favorite group that has strictly exclusivist views of heaven–I name SBs because I am technically one!).
Comment by: Simon
3People say heaven provides them with meaning to life. It doesn’t. All it does is add an extra life.
Comment by: Stephan
4I don’t give heaven a lot of thought because I cannot imagine an eternity of doing anything! I have a hard enough time planning what I am going to do next week, so infinity is a little beyond me. When I get there (and I believe I will) I will find out what it’s like. I can wait.
For now I am trying to make as much heaven on earth as possible. I married an angel and together we made three more. I don’t play the harp, but the guitar is similar. The streets here are not paved with gold, but since asphalt is a petroleum product it’s getting pretty close.
I believe there is a literal heaven, but Jesus spent most of His time telling us how to live this life, so that is what I focus on.
Comment by: Julie Marie
5I don’t think much about heaven either, but when I do I ponder, since it is a perfect place with nothing bad - how terrific it will be to NOT have jealousy, greed, exploitation, self serving motives and power/control issues.
Comment by: Ir
6Thanks for your comment, Simon.
What effect does the belief “I have an extra life” have on the way those with that belief live their [current] lives?
Comment by: TXatheist
7I like the idea of heaven but I can’t even imagine what it would be like so I won’t say if I’d enjoy it or if it would be undesirable.
Comment by: Julie Marie
8Oh, and another thing I imagine when I think about heaven: it will be a feast for the eyes. For me that would be well tended gardens with exotic flowers, birds that sing but don’t poop, and waterfalls cascading into clear pools that are always just right for a skinny dip. Because of course, there is no physical imperfection to hide in heaven, either ;)
Comment by: Marty
9Well relative to Heaven - I have considered converting to Islam - 100 Virgins certainly gets my attention.
It is a little paradoxical - as I am involved a bit with the Muslim community here in Santa Barbara. Last Saturday night they (all men) participated actively in an Interfaith Meeting and on Sunday we had a very outstanding and friendly (and extremly knowlegeable and open about most any topic that was brough up) young (30 or so) Muslim come dialogue with a group of us at the Presbyterian Church I attend. I asked the my new Muslim friend where the Muslim women were Saturday night? More of a smile then a real answer. It was clear how extremely conservative they are in male female relationships. They would never even dream of flirting. I wondered how they could not even dream of flirting in this life - but were going for the 100 virgins in Heaven.
I told my new Muslim friend (who serves on the Board of the Interfaith Initiative and had actually been in charge of last Saturday nights meeting) that I was going to recommend that our next meeting be presentations exclusively by the women of various faiths/religions sharing about their religions and dialoging with each other. My friend indicated that the Muslim women in our community would be very reluctant to do that and do not have the skill set to do that - but he thought he could invite Muslim women from Los Angeles.
Comment by: Jim Henderson
10I like to say “Justice Demands Heaven” because if this is as good as it gets then there are millions of people who have spent their lives in Hell.
Comment by: Siamang
11Wow, powerful thought, Jim.
For me, the heaven I’d wish wouldn’t be in a different life. I’d just love to watch the progress of mankind unfold. I won’t, and that makes me sad. I have so much curiosity that will never be sated in this lifetime.
I’d love to see mankind venture to the stars. What wonderous discoveries lie there.
Comment by: KSG
12Eternity…wow… it’s too much to think about. It causes my head to wreck, the idea of not having an ending…too much…Aurghhh….
What will heaven be like? Man, I’ve tried to wrap my head around it but it all seems so small. The biggest ideas I can dream up fall really short of all the possibilities.
Jim said “Justice Demands Heaven” . I would like to add that heaven demand justice here and now, never mind later…later will come when it comes, but it’s my assignment to bring a piece of heaven to where I live. That’s were my thoughts of heaven currently lie… I’d like to be found in heaven by doing the stuff.
Comment by: Jim Henderson
13Is that a cool quote or what?
Comment by: Tom in Sacramento
14Julie wrote:
You just described my backyard (except I haven’t trained the birds yet) and I live on a street named ‘El Cielito’; Spanish for little heaven. ;-)
In truth, I hardly ever think about heaven. But I am convinced that it is real — maybe in a different dimension — and I think that it will be so different from anything we can experience that attempts to describe it are necessarily futile.
The image I use, when the subject does come up, is “death and heaven” being like “birth and earth”. Imagine you had the ability; you slip into a womb and find there a baby who is warm and cozy, protected from the jostles of life, nourished with no effort, and shielded from glare.
And so you say, “You need to be born so that you can get out of here and enjoy life.” And you explain that the baby will be unconstrained by any of the things that it now regards as comforts. (That’s an important point, there.) And the baby, says, “No way. I can’t imagine the world you describe. You tell me that it will be painful; squeezing and compressing me in order to get there. I’ll be cold and hungry and even those who love me will be unable to fully meet my needs, and ultimately I’ll have to live on my own. No thank you kindly. I’ll just stay here.”
But, of course, the baby doesn’t have that option. And neither will we. Just as, as babies, we once squeezed through the birth canal only to find an immense expansion of our range and freedom of movement, so I think we will one day walk down a narrow corridor to deaths door. And in like manner we will find that on the other side of the door lies a world as unimaginably rich and complex and diverse as our world is from the inside of a womb.
I could go on, there’s lots more to this picture, but y’all get the idea.
Comment by: Julie Marie
15cool thought, Tom.
but I still want flowers and waterfalls too :)
Comment by: Ir
16Ooh, me too! I like that the Bible teaches about a new heaven and a new earth - because I enjoy the beauty of this earth very much! I liked your other comments along those lines too, Julie Marie.
Thanks everyone for your thoughtful and interesting comments.
I like the idea - going with Siamang’s great comment that Jim picked up on - that heaven would give me time to learn about all the things I won’t have time to learn about on earth.
Tom I like this:
Awesome thought, KSG!
Maybe that’s precisely why they are excited about the 100 virgins in heaven. ;)
Wow Jim - I love how otherly your reason for hoping heaven is real is.
Thanks for your comment TX. I think it’s hard to imagine too, actually.
Good point - I expect you’ve heard the expression “he/she was so heavenly-minded he/she was no earthly good…” ;)
Thanks for the joke NCxian. (It was a joke, wasn’t it?)
Nice focus, Stephan. It seems to me that focusing on following Jesus in this life would be the best way to make it likely Jesus will be happy to see you when you get to the next one.
(Simon I responded to your comment up in comment #6)
Comment by: Karen
17Would you be able to be perfectly happy in heaven, knowing that some other people are in hell, or that they at least died without experiencing heaven?
Comment by: Ir
18Karen, I think that’s a great question.
I find it hard to think that I could be. That it’s possible to be happy in heaven when loved ones are in hell is a part of Christian belief I don’t really understand.
Comment by: TXatheist
19Ir with this comment maybe you could look into Buddhism which realizes there is no god but they believe in reincarnation.
Comment by: Lisa
20I imagine sometimes that maybe it’s possible there is no Hell; that everyone goes to heaven; And that in heaven there is a party going on. While many are inside enjoying themselves others are outside and can only look in. People here on earth think they know what it takes to get an invitation to the party…
Just imagining.
Comment by: Ir
21TX, I see what you mean.
I like having my whole focus on this life, though - I don’t think I’d prefer Buddhism, or any other belief system including reincarnation, over atheism. Plus I like the freedom [I perceive there is] in atheism.
(Not that I’m saying I’m an atheist ;))
Comment by: Ir
22I’d rather think there’s no hell and I like the idea of heaven being a party.
What puzzles me is ‘no second chance’ beliefs. I don’t really understand why, if people live on after death, and someone says to God “Hey I screwed up - I would rather be in heaven - what do I have to do?” God would say “too bad - it’s too late now”.
I guess I really don’t want to think that heaven could be like some exclusive club on earth.
I also really don’t understand when people say “oh it wouldn’t happen that anyone in hell changes their mind - the people in hell will all say (forever) they’d rather be there than with God”. If heaven is so great I don’t understand why that would be.
I love the pictures of heaven people have shared on this thread, notwithstanding the things that puzzle me.
Comment by: Jim Henderson
23KSG nice correction/addition-I agree that this is the primary message the founder of my/the/our family business had in mind when he talked so much about bringing the KOG here to earth
“heaven demand justice here and now, never mind later…later will come when it comes, but it’s my assignment to bring a piece of heaven to where I live”
Comment by: Stephan
24Karen, regarding your quote about enjoying heaven while other are in hell, I have struggled quite a bit with this, to the point of telling God I would be willing to go the hell so that others did not have to. He assured me that He had already been there and had taken care of it, so I’m not worried.
Comment by: Julie Marie
25and since that is the only part of the equation we truly have any control over, that is the best place to focus our thoughts and our actions.
Comment by: NCxian
26Yeah, it was a joke. They work out so much better when you can wave your arms around and make faces!
Comment by: Lisa
27Heaven is:
Attending a women’s retreat this weekend and spending time wandering the beach with requisite coffee mug in hand while searching for sand-dollars.
Comment by: Ir
28Ooooh, I’m jealous, Lisa! :)
Comment by: Cully
29I know it’s been said before but heaven just sounds so… boring. How many times have you been told that you can’t appreciate the highs without the lows? What good is an eternity of highs then? I can’t imagine that my 80 odd years of “lows” here on earth would be enough to make me appreciate anything eternally. Here’s something that most people wouldn’t admit. I LIKE the lows. I appreciate a good rainy day just as much as I appreciate the day of sunshine that follows. And everyone will be given a perfect new body? By whose standards? The body’s owner? The people looking? Will all of heavan have 0% body fat? What about guys who prefer their women on the Rubenesque side? Yes, perfectly manicured gardens are pretty but so is a tangled untended forest.
Here’s something you won’t hear every day, but… I like the struggle of life. Working to get what I need. Working to make myself or my work better. The tingle of fear and adrenaline when I’m in fear, or danger or even perceived danger. How can it be better to have everything I need already there? What would be the drive that would get me through eternity? Having all my questions answered and knowing everything would be great… for about a day and a half. What then? If I had been born in a third world nation, or even farther down the economic scale in America, maybe I could understand the appeal, but as it stands I don’t. I think after a couple weeks of “rest” in heaven I’d be begging for the gift of oblivion. But then I never really liked summer vacation either.
The classic answer that I’ve been given to these concerns in the past is along the lines of… “Well, you’d get to spend eternity in the presence of God! Wouldn’t that be great?!” This is another point that I just don’t get. Seems to me that the bible places the people in heaven in a subservient position, worshipping and singing for eternity, “thanking” God for this “miserable life” that they were all so desperate to get shed of anyway.
Comment by: Cully
30Also… looking again at the quote:
Again… by whose standards is this stuff decided? I’m sure that there are people on this planet who cringe when they see me coming because they know that I bring with me the potential for a conversation about theatre, and they hate theatre. So who gets “fixed?” Me or them? Is my love of theatre driven out because they didn’t like it or will they suddenly be gifted with an appreciation for it?
Comment by: Stephan
31Cully, I think you have some good points, but these are the questions that prevent me from spending much time thinking about heaven. There’s too much I don’t know, and it won’t do anyone any good for me to spend my time on it. I’ll do the best I can in this life, and deal with the next one when it happens.
Comment by: 2e
32I’ve been listening to a book on cd called “Heaven” by Randy Alcorn. It’s transforming my views on what Heaven is and is like.
I disagree with John, the first poster, an would say that heaven IS the cake, not the icing. Heaven in my view is a perfected relationship with God. The new earth and eternal life parts: now that’s icing.
Comment by: Ir
33I’m glad you said this, Cully, because even though I did like this particular quote, in general I think like you - meaning, if I see a problem with something I can’t just pretend the problem isn’t there.
Comment by: skikid
34I don’t spend a lot of time thinking about life after death… but when I do the idea of Heaven as a place is very strange to me. I don’t really think that after death there is a big garden type place where everyone hangs out. I think more along the lines of being in perfect relationship with God… although I should probably admit I really have no idea what that would look like. I just think the whole garden, lots of food, 100 virgins… whatever, is much more of a human construction.
Comment by: KSG
35Skikid, you’ve made some great observations…
I don’t think any of us do…people who claim to know probably lack the internal security to be able to admit that they really don’t much at all. (I think this applies to many issues of doctrine, not just heaven).
Yes, it is a human construction. Finite minds trying to comprehend infinity.
Well said Skikid.
Comment by: Tom in Sacramento
36Cully, I love your comment about you and theater. It reminds me of the old comment that, “Heaven for a cat would be hell for a mouse.” ;-)